Nobody scares me more than drunk white men in numbers.
HAPPY INTERNATIONAL WOMEN’S DAY!!!
Warning for Trans Youth in Southern Ontario
Avoid Dr. Kenneth Zucker of the Centre for Addiction and Mental Health (CAMH) in Toronto. He will not help you in any way and upon asking many invasive, disrespectful, and irrelevant questions, he will suggest you undergo “reparative therapy” to “fix” you (pictured above). When he finishes writing his “report”, which can take months, he will refer to you in an extremely dehumanizing manner that makes you out to be some kind of oddity (eg “He seems very interested in having breasts.”) and he will not respect your gender or use the correct pronouns whatsoever. Not only that, but when he requests your report cards and school pictures (???) he will really take his time in giving them back when you ask him to. Good luck contacting him outside of an appointment, too, as he very rarely, if ever, responds to emails or phone calls. He has stated he considers trans women a “bad outcome of gay men.” Don’t waste your time with this transphobic piece of shit.
Yes yes yes I’m so happy people are talking about this. That clinic works under the old DSM criteria. If you are looking for physical health or mental health or family support around gender please contact Rainbow Health Ontario or the new trans clinic at Sick Kids.
A lot of parents especially go to that clinic with their kids because it’s affiliated with such a well know national agency and they assume it will be the best support. If you hear anyone talking about it please correct them, it is very harmful. :(
I wrote a post last year about an amazing Ontario doctor who specializes in health-care for trans youth, Dr. Carys Massarella. She is the lead Physician of the Transcare Program at Quest Community Health Centre in St. Catharine’s, and is currently one of only three ‘non-pathologizing’ trans-care health providers in Ontario. ‘Non-Pathologizing’ means that when a trans-patient comes in to speak with her about care and care options, their trans identity is:
- not questioned
- not treated as something needing to be fixed
- not pathologized as a mental illness which requires a psychiatric evaluation before proceeding with care options.
If you’re a trans youth looking for health-care (or know any trans youth whose families are hoping to get medical support for them), please DO NOT go to/recommend Dr. Zucker at CAMH. He is severely transphobic and is only looking to ‘fix’ trans kids who he thinks are ‘confused’. Instead, two hospitals that are doing good work for transfolks in the GTA and surrounding area are St. Mike’s in Toronto and St. Joseph’s in Hamilton. Both are (surprisingly) Catholic hospitals, but have made reputations for themselves as providing ethical care for the LGBTQ community. Carys herself is a member of the St. Joseph’s health staff, and says that her transition was embraced at the hospital and its catholic staff, including its nuns. As well, Dr. Massarella’s practice, Quest Community Heath Centre, is a fantastic resource if you can get out to St. Catherine’s.
Reblogging for new information
Personally been hearing some things about CAMH that run the gamut from “sketchy” to “terrifying” for years now from people I personally know, so like, boosting.
87,359 signatures left to sign in 23 days. That’s about 3,800 per day.
Get on it, most excellent Tumblrians.
Please don’t let this one die like the last one
Spread it like wildfire!
guys we’re gaining about 1k signatures a day….
My name is Elly and I can put pieces of clothing together…. Kinda
Pants - Forever 21+ / Top- Rainbow / Cardigan- Thrifted / Shoes- Call it Spring / Bag- Aldo Accessories / Jewelry- Aldo Accesories
"we’re all human!"
yeah except you never had to fight for your humanity
"we all bleed red!"
yeah except it’s not your blood running in the streets
"we should all be just nice to each other!"
yeah except you’re not holding up your end of the bargain
After counting up all the ‘votes’ for each variation of my nonbinary flag (to be separate from the genderqueer flag), it seems this is the most loved! Yay!
Once again, here is the key for the colors:
Yellow is representative of being outside the binary, as it is a color often used to distinguish something as its own.
White is the photological presence of all color/light. This is to represent people who are many or all genders.
Purple represents the fluidity and multiplicity of many gender experiences, the uniqueness and flexibility of nonbinary people, as well as representing those whose gender experiences include being of or between female and male.
Black is the photological absence of color/light. This is to represent agender or genderlessness.
After all the discussion I’ve had with others on the best colors, arrangements, and descriptions possible, this is the final product. Hope you all like!
it’s fun watching tumblr go from “hitler wasn’t that bad!! everyone is human uwu” and “look at this pretty painting SEE ADOLF WAS A NICE ARTIST!!” to “OMG ANNE FRANK WAS QUEER?/?? NAZIS ARE SOOOO EVIL DIE HET SCUM” and by fun i mean i hope you go swimming with a leviathan
i like that we say “oh, man” to express disappointment
because men are disappointing
white boy makes 35 complaints about women then says women complain too much: the video
if you’re not native american and you uncritically use the term “spirit animal” then you need to sit in the corner and think about what you have done
Shoutout to the people out there who weren’t allowed to show emotion as children growing up and have issues about it as adults